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Women are stupid?

Woo woo..hold on girls. Don't get so emotional. It a question mark, not a statement. This topic actually came out of my head when I was watching Bulletin Utama while having my dinner this evening (Bad habit for those on diet: Eating while watching tv). A girl, at K. Terengganu wanted to jump from a hotel roof after an argument with her boyfriend. This fellow scolded her for not telling him that she went back to her hometown (Kes merajuk ler ni lepas kena marah). Why arr...some women like to do stupid things like this. A 'self-destruction' I would say. Why did she choose to kill herself instead of killing the guy that broke her heart? Kill him first la, then only kill your self (Ada berani?).

Huhuh...I'm just kidding guys! Actually my point here is, why do you want to hurt your self. He won't lost anything. He could find another new girl friends. And you? Buried underground. I remember during my school time, my ustaz said, those who committed suicide would continue to do what he/she did to kill him/herself until the Kiamat. Meaning that, if you'd killed yourself by jumping from the roof, you would repeat it again and again till the end of the world. So, do you think your problem was gone when you choose to take your life. It's not that easy!

Some girls are intelligent enough. They take 'relationship breakdown' as a turning point in their life. Successfully moved on. In fact, they excel in their life and career. It is not the end of the world gals. Experiences could change you to a better person, so the choice is yours. Never let your heart control your head. Pis!

Comments

na-nee-no said…
lain orang lain penerimaannya. kengkdg tak boleh nak salahkan org yg bedooh tu jugak sebab kita tatau apa yg diorg fikirkan. maybe diorg tade tpt mengadu, yang ada hanyalah self destruct button.

been there, done that. and now i'm strong. :)
Rahayu Niza said…
Good2..nani..through it all, just stand up! ngehehe..
whytem said…
tapi sebenarnya diri sendiri yang kontrol emosi tu..tgklah pegangan tentang emosi cmna..kalo dia ada ilmu dan sedikit agama...insyaAllah tak kan jadi cmni
buzzy said…
bile perasaan kawal minda..lebih kurang camtu la tindak tanduknye..tak terlepas utk kaum adam jugak,penah dgr kes lelaki frust,terus panjat pencawang telefon.then bercakap sorang2..
sebaiknya minda itu perlu berfungsi sepenuhnya dlm ape juga keadaan.
hehe,berkata ape yg pernah dirasa.tp taklah sy memanjat pencawang itu..hihihi
Rahayu Niza said…
yatim: agreed
buzzy: bagus la buzzy ni, semua dia ada pengalaman hehe.

Cuma, kekadang tu bila kita tak berada dlm keadaan tu, kita bleh la berpk cara waras. Bila benda tu kena kat kita, mmg sgt menguji!
buzzy said…
hehe takde la kak.kebetulan je ape yg dirasa kene dgn suasana..alaa pengalaman akak lg best kan..citer la sket..hehe

sumenye pengalaman,agak2 bole jd kaunselor tak..leh ganti kak has..hehehe
Rahayu Niza said…
err..pengalaman akak? byk yg dh 'delete' hahaha...zaini apply la jadik kaunselor lepas grad nanti..boleh?;))
whytem said…
hahah..akak ayu memang banyak pengalaman..simpan ja tu..hehe..umur pun kan semakin meningkat..so peglaman bnyak la..hehe
Rahayu Niza said…
akak ayu? cesss timto..hahah. Anda tidak dibenarkan memanggil kakak sebab anda pun apa kurangnyaa umur sama naikkk..:P

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